When is the right time to ask a girl out?

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You have this ultimate girl crush at school and you’re dying to ask her out, but you don’t get the nerve. You are afraid that you might get rejected and receive a big NO. If you want to ask a girl out, it’s just easy as a pie when you've got CONFIDENCE, SINCERITY and the proper TIMING whether you are a suitor, a friend, a boyfriend or a husband. 

In the dating world, it’s all about guts and being true to yourself. Well, the first thing is FOCUS. It is better to know the girl you want to ask out. It is better to start from the lowest level of interaction, like as friends. There, you will get to know the girl better and have the chance to know her interests and likes and build trust. TRUST is very important, because it won’t have doubts being with you. Every girl wants security and assurance that she’s going to be safe dating with you so that she will not treat you as a stranger. Remember, the word "friend" in boyfriend is there for a reason. Your aim is to for her feel comfortable and make her want to be with you.

When you get the chance to communicate with her often, be positive and entertaining. I’m not saying you need to act like a clown; just be funny and humorous. Girls love guys who are fun to be with and will keep her away from boredom. Maintain eye contact or always look at her face, not anywhere else (worst are the boobs and butt). She might think you are planning something wrong and want her clothes off. Don’t touch her first. Wait for her to initiate the move. This will assure you that she won’t feel anything bad when you touch her. Still, remember that you have your limits.

Rejection will come along. She might be busy or she really doesn’t like going out with you. Don’t take it emotionally. Instead, keep yourself steady. Maybe, it is not the right time for her or she might not be really into you. Just move on and try to ask another one. That’s life. You don’t always win a game. 

To get her sweetest YES, it’s very important to win her heart. The moment you build the friendship, try to show her that you like being with her. Be kind, sweet and creative each time you get the chance to be with her. You must also look for and observe her responses to your moves. If she gets along with you, then keep moving. You might be nearer than you think.

If you're already her man, most times you ask her out is when you celebrate you monthsary, anniversary, birthdays or any special occasion. Sometimes, you probably ask her out after a fight for you to make up and rebuild the broken parts. As a boyfriend, it’s your faithful duty to spice up your relationship. Same goes for the married dudes out there. Here are the basic things to do when you ask your girl out: 

• Read her mood. Look if she's sad, depressed, stressed, bored and other emotions she can show. Boyfriends by this time take it easier since you’ve known your girl for quite some time, but for those who are still on the verge of becoming one, you need to learn this trick. 
• Check her schedule. Some girls can sacrifice their schedule while some don’t. So if she has a busy schedule, ask her out and just adjust to when she prefers. But, remember to not brag too much. This will irritate her and it will make things harder for you the next time. 
• If you want to ask a girl out, you should leave an impression on her whether she rejects the offer or not. Someday, she might come to her senses and may ask you out. 
• Opt for good and safe dates. Failures happen, but always remember that every girl is a new book. Some may not be the same with others, so it is also important to experiment and add spice to these basic stuffs. 

Overall, just keep in mind that the best to ask a girl out is the perfect moment you are happy doing things together.