Dating a dating married man

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Dating?... Married man?... Do you really want to do this? Ask that to yourself. Oh come on! Wake up girl! Even how many zillion times you turn the globe you can never change the fact that he’s married and there you are sitting pretty becoming the home wrecker. Even you find him and his wife in a terrible situation, the fact that you are intruding and forcing yourself to fit in it will never go right. You must weigh thing up and think whether it is love or just lust.

This might sound so painful to hear especially when you get too attached to the married mad. But, seriously you are being placed on the sidelines. Some men just can’t stop themselves and will cross over the line. You can’t be too dumb to be fooled and to love a married man. The fact that he has his family and children is a big sign that you are just putting yourself in a terrible situation. It’s wrong to hurt others even how much you hide it. You know it’s lying to his family and to YOURSELF. 

Remember, the wife deserves the man’s attention and effort. At the first place the wife comes first. She has been through a lot more than you know. Even how struggling they are in their relationship you don’t have the right to be an additional factor to ruin everything they build up together.

Open your eyes, you might seem be happy dating “rich” married man and enjoy all the luxury in life, but value yourself as a woman. Labeled as the “mistress” never sounds good. If you’re in his wife’s shoes, how would you feel if his cheating? You might probably pull a gun and put it on the bitch’s head (that’s violent by the way). Be sensitive and don’t be selfish. Understand and respect others’ feelings. The children doesn’t deserve all the pain in the situation. 

It’s time for you to decide and make up your mind. Put your relationship to end. The best thing to do is to back-off and leave them alone. I know you would feel broken and pain will come next. At the end of everything you are the loser even if he would leave his family just to be with you. You can’t trade your virtues just for a man who’s already committed. Remember, he lied to his wife, to his children and to the world. And know what’s worst? He poisoned your brain. A real man knows his responsibility and knows what best for everyone. He will never be the right person for you. Set the married man free. Go back to your single life and look for a man who’s willing to take you to church and be his wife. You deserve to be the first and not the second nor the third.